Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Nearly every student that's ever passed through junior high or high school has had at least one teacher that went above and beyond to make learning fun and effective. When you have a chance, offer that teacher some encouragement and appreciation. Of course, there may be another teacher who seems to demand too much, respect too little, or make life tough. Responding with your best effort, your best manners, and your kindest smile will make your Heavenly Father proud. It may even go a long way in softening his or her heart toward you and the other students.
Info from Biblezine™ Revolve 2OO7

Mindless Behavior - Girls Talkin' Bout

Fighting Fair
What makes us mad and how we show it is partly the function of the temperament we're born with, and partly a reflection of how confident we feel. If we don't learn to understand and control our anger in a healthy way, we run the risk of either swelling up and exploding (and developing the first stages of heart disease, even as teenagers) or, by mean name-calling and embarrassing loud conversation, appearing crass and stupid.

There's nothing wrong with getting angry. In fact, it's a signal worth listening to. But first it's important to distinguish between what's annoying and what's infuriating. A friend who ignores you can make you feel unimportant. A teacher who is sarcastic can make you feel stupid. Our anger is a reaction to feeling powerless, uninteresting or out of control. How strongly we react when we're made to feel this way is completely individual.

The truth looks simple when we're angry. We are right and they are wrong. What pushes your buttons...being kept waiting, feeling betrayed, being left out? Not getting paid back, being asked for your homework all the time, being unjustly blamed for something? And who knows best how to set you off...your parents, a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a sibling, a teacher?

No matter the circumstances, the drill is the same. Take a few deep breaths. Be honest, concerned and respectful, even if the other person isn't. And assume responsibility for your role in the situation.

Here are some techniques to help you better handle this powerful emotion. Think of anger as a carton of milk, if you keep it too long it becomes a curdled, foul smelling mess. What's the worst thing that can happen if you expressed your feelings?

  1. Just because you're angry doesn't mean it has to end in an ugly confrontation. If you're seeing red, take a time out. Avoid calling people names or being insulting.
  2. Try to understand where the other person is coming from. Don't assign blame. Say "I feel," or "I think," rather than "You always," or "You should."
  3. Ask questions. Listen to the answers carefully. Does she know you're mad at her? If not, why?
  4. Cooperation is always key when you're trying to straighten out a misunderstanding. Show you expect that a compromise can be reached.
  5. Concentrate on the matter at hand. Avoid bringing up other issues from the past.
  6. Don't be afraid to apologize.
  7. Avoid power struggles. It's really okay to be wrong.
Info from BeingGirl.com
Boys and Dating... Why Is It All So Complicated? 

When it comes to boys and dating, there is no such thing as a foolish question. How are you supposed to know the answers to questions you’ve never needed to ask before? Here are a few of the questions we’ve been asked most often!

How do I know if I’m ready to date?
Everyone develops at different rates, and if you are still uncomfortable with the idea of dating, that’s totally OK. Hanging with friends who don’t have boyfriends will stop you from feeling as though you have two heads. Girls who start too young might find they go too far too soon because they don’t know how to put the brakes on. Far better to wait until you have the confidence to do and say only what you want to.

What does being attracted to someone really mean?
Although we think of attraction mainly in terms of looks or personality, it also includes how a person smells (pheromones are our own personal scent), how they treat you and how you interpret their body language. Although sexual chemistry is not an exact science, studies show that pleasant, warm people are seen as more attractive than cold distant ones. It’s no secret looks are important for first impressions but usually we end up with people who are on the same level of physical attractiveness as we are.

What should I expect from a first date?
Relax. This is not a final examination on which your entire grade is based. A first date is simply an occasion to be with someone else for a certain period of time and for a certain amount of pleasant, personal interaction. It is no different from deciding to meet a friend at a designated place and time. It is the beginning of a new relationship. You are simply making a statement to a guy that you would like to get to know him better.

Why are some girls “boy crazy?”
One reason some girls are boy crazy is because they need a lot of attention and aren’t getting it at home, especially from their fathers. Others need boys to provide some of the qualities they think they can’t get by themselves like power (he will protect her), or status (people will admire her more) or independence (an excuse to get out of her home for a while.) Girls who are boy crazy often haven’t developed their own identity, giving up on their development for the pursuit of boys. Sadly, they just don’t think they are as important as having a boyfriend is.

If I like a guy who doesn’t do as well in school as I do, shouldn’t I hide my brains and talent, just a little?
No! Watch yourself and pay attention to your own unequal thinking. You have the right to be seen as the strong, smart, independent young woman you are. If a guy doesn’t like it, too bad for him. But don’t sell him short. He might just be as attracted to your intelligence as you are to his strengths.
Info from BeingGirl.com

Ciara - Speechless

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

beauty secret
Bling It On!
A pair of funky earrings or a super cool bangle bracelet can instantly transform an unimaginative jean-and-a-tee outfit into a juicy little ensemble that rocks. Toy don't have to sport expensive precious jewels or fancy gemstones to achieve a great sense of fashion.
Info from Biblezine™ Revolve 2OO7
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Do you have a mentor?
Is there a cool, godly role model you can look up to and talk to in confidence, knowing he/she's been there and won't judge you or talk about you? If you do, then you already know how much he/she adds to your life. If you don't, ask God to help you find someone to fill that mentor role in your life..

Consider being s positive influence for a younger girl who is coming along behind you.
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6 Tips To Beat Exam Stress

Have you ever seen a stress-free college student? I haven’t, unless you count the freshmen who mess up the first half of the semester, say “screw it” to the rest and never attend class again. But that’s not what I’m talking about here.
Stress is a huge part of the college experience, and it’s something we all have to deal with in life. We don’t, however, have to let it get the best of us.
This may come as a shock, but stress DOES NOT have to take over your life, no matter how many finals you have. You can still do well on your tests without wanting to die for an entire week.
I know this is a fashion site, but it’s also a site about college life, and finals are a huge part of that. Here are my top tips for keeping stress at a minimum during your hectic final exams week that is probably happening right now or very soon at your school.
Just for the record, these tips actually work, and the list doesn’t include any cliche’ crap that doesn’t, like “deep breathing exercises”.
1. Avoid stressful people.
Stress actually is contagious. During exam week, resist the urge to have a study session with your super-tense friend, especially if she’s complaining about all the work she has to do and breaking pencils all over the place. Her stress will only add to your stress.
2. Eat healthy and exercise.
This seems like a no-brainer, but it’s a wonder how many people forget it. Skip the sugar, which will make you crash, and go for snacks like granola bars, healthy cereal or fruits and veggies to keep your blood sugar stable. If you’re studying for a long period of time, eat some protein too. Also, try to get some form of exercise. Even a 10 minute walk will leave you calmer and more focused.
3. Just say NO.
I don’t mean to drugs, although I’m not recommending them or anything. What you need to say no to are the people who want to take up your time. There will probably be a friend who needs to talk to you for hours about her life, or a keg party the night before your final, and if you say yes, you’ll probably be tempted to blow off studying. Resist the urge. Say no to the distractions and be selfish for a day. You want a good GPA, right?
4. Force yourself to take breaks.
For every hour or so that you work, take a 10 or 15 minute break. Let yourself do whatever you want (check Facebook, check out that guy sitting nearby, stare off into space, call a friend, etc.) for those 10-15 mins, then start working again. This gives your brain a little rest and will help keep you more focused when you are actually doing work.
5. Visualize it all going right.
This is actually my favorite tip of all, even though it sounds kind of nuts. Imagine yourself taking the test and feeling confident that you know all the information. Picture getting all of the answers right, and focus on how relaxed you feel. Then picture the A on your test paper. When you imagine a happy ending, that’s often what happens, because you make the decisions that lead to it without even realizing.
6. If you’ve studied all you can, get up your confidence!
When test-time rolls around, it’s time to get yourself into confidence mode. You’ve prepared as much as you could, and now it’s time to ace the test. The tip here is to do whatever works to convince yourself you are going to do really well. Again, I know this tip sounds a little crazy but you just have to try it for yourself. I think you’ll like the results.
Info from CollegeFashion.net
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Lεaяn It & Livε It

Luke 14:33
Learn It: Forgiveness is free, but following Jesus is costly.
Learn It: When you start to follow Jesus, "me"  is not the most important person anymore. "He" is. Today, look for ways to live for him and to put others before yourself.

Luke 1O:27-29
Learn It: You cannot serve both God and stuff.
Live It: If you obsess and "things" and possessions, it's time for a change. Give away your extra stuff and avoid accumulating things you don't really need.

Luke 12:15
Learn It: If you want to see Jesus, look for him and he'll find you!
Love It: Here are three great ways to see Jesus: read about him in the Bible, talk with someone who has known him for a long time, and listen to people when they teach about him.

Info from Biblezine™ Revolve 2OO7

Monday, November 28, 2011

This is sooo cute.. Check it out

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1. I love the way we finish each other’s sentences.
2. I love the way I know you’ll never give up on me.
3. I love the fact that I wouldn't ever give up on you.
4. I love the way you look at me.
5. I love how beautiful your eyes are.

6. I love the way I can’t imagine a day without you in my life.
7. I love the way if we were ever separated I wouldn't know how to go on.
8. I love the way we cuddle and watch sunsets together.

9. I love the way we sometimes stay up all night and just talk, then watch the sunrise together.

10. I love how I know you’ll always be there when I need you to be.
11. I love the fact that I will always be there for you too.
12. I love how when I dream of my life partner, the only person that I can see is you.
13. I love how complete I feel when I am with you.
14. I love how our bodies just fit together.
15. I love the way you make me laugh.
16.I love the way you laugh.
17. I love the way you won’t compromise yourself when we are together.
18. I love the way you won’t let me compromise myself.
19. I love your thoughtfulness.
20. I love your tenderness.
21. I love your ability to speak without saying a single word.
22. I love the way we glance at each other across the room and know what each other is thinking.
23. I love the way, how even though we may be miles apart I still feel like you’re right here with me.
24. I love the way you surprise me with the perfect gifts that show you pay attention to me.
25. I love the way you’ll watch a sporting game with me even though you may not be interested in it.
26. I love the way you treat my friends.
27. I love your love for the things that interest me.
28. I love the way you let me live my life freely without jealousy.
29. I love how you demand respect but are not controlling.
30. I love how I would do anything in this world to make you happy.
31. I love how you would do anything in this world to make me happy.
32. I love the way your voice sounds over the phone...
33. I love the way your voice sounds when you whisper sweet nothings in my ear.
34. I love the completeness and oneness I feel when we make love.
35. I love your sensuality.
36. I love how our romance feels like the perfect romance movie.
37. I love how you are my soul mate.
38. I love the way you handle troubled times.
39. I love the way you respect me.
40. I love the way you protect and defend me.
41. I love how you feel when we cuddle.
42. I love the softness of your lips against mine.
43. I love the softness of your lips against my body.
44. I love the feeling of your hair brushing against me when we make love.
45. I love laying in bed at night talking about nothing.
46. I love waking up to you in my arms.
47. I love the surprises you leave for me.
48. I love your intelligence.
49.I love your ingenuity.
50. I love your ability to make friends where ever we go.
51. I love your love for life.
52. I love your passion for your hobbies and interests.
53. I love how every time I look at you, you take my breath away.
54. I love how I thank God everyday for bringing someone as wonderful as you into my life.
55. I love the fact you gave me the gift of our children.
56. I love the special moments that we shared that will remain my fondest memories of you and I.
57. I love spending the holidays with the one person I love the most.
58. I love how my heart skips a beat whenever you walk into the room.
59. I love how you love me.
60. I love how I love you.
61. I love the ways you choose to show your affection for me.
62. I love the way you inspire me to be more than I am.
63. I love the way you spark my creativity and imagination.
64. I love the way you make me feel like anything is possible as long as I’m with you.
65. I love your sense of humor.
66. I love the way you make me feel like royalty.
67. I love the way you dress.
68. I love your understated elegance.
69.I love you just the way you are.
70. I love your spontaneity.
71. I love our life together.
72. I love if I died right now I would be the happiest person alive knowing I found my one true love.
73. I love the fact that we will grow old together.
74. I love your way with words.
75. I love the way you look when you are sleeping.
76. I love the way you think you look awful when you first take up when it is actually then I find you the most beautiful.
77. I love your willingness to share everything and most especially your heart with me.
78. I love your strength of character.
79. I love taking showers together.
80. I love the way you leave me love notes to find whenever you’re gone.
81. I love the way you treat me.
82. I love the way you take care of us.
83. I love your cooking.
84. I love the way you take the time to thank me for doing things.
85. I love the way you show your affection when we are around friends and/or family.
86. I love the way you are not scared to show your affection when we are in public.
87. I love your confidence.
88. I love your ability to make me feel better when times are tough.
89. I love the way we make up after a fight.
90. I love the way you support me when I’m off track.
91. I love the way you take the time to show me how much you love me.
92. I love your beautiful hair.
93. I love your smell.
94. I love your openness to try new things.
95. I love your ability to talk things through.
96. I love your courage to be you.
97. I love your greatness.
98. I love the fact that you want to be with me and only me.
99. I love how I am and feel when I am with you!
100. I love you for you!

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Sunday, November 27, 2011

revolving:
What's at the Center of Your Life..

GOD or GUYS?

My life might be revolving around guys if I ...

⇨ cover my walls with pictures of hot guys.

 am willing to drop my girlfriends to be with a guy.

⇨ crave guys' attention and often flirt (and dress sexy) to get it.

⇨ don't feel OK unless I have a boyfriend -- I go from crush to crush.

⇨ think about guys (and what they think of me) constantly.

 have mostly guys' numbers programmed in my cell phone.

⇨ spend more time communicating with my guy friends than I spend with God or family.

⇨ ask a guy friend for advice before asking God.

⇨ daydream daily about a particular guy.

Guys may draw your attention, but God wants to keep my attention forever.
His satisfying love is what you should really be searching for!

Matthew 5:6 ==>> "Those who want to do right more than anything else are happy,
because God will fully satisfy them."
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beauty secret
pH --- That's Phat!
Have you ever noticed beauty suppliers talking up the pH balance of their products in the ads? They're actually talking about the "potential of hydrogen" present in the chemicals used. If you have fussy skin, look for beauty products that say "pH-balanced." They're be less likely to irritate.
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Can a Long Distance Relationship Work?


Whether a long distance relationship can work or not depends on several factors and the physical distance is not one of them. The most important thing in long distance relationship is to define the relationship into exclusive or non-exclusive as well as to discuss the possibility of relocating in the future because a long distance relationship can not work indefinitely.

Making a long distance relationship work can be challenging but it is not impossible. Since the distance prevents the couple to see each other often it is crucial to maintain an emotional connection with each other through frequent communication. However, talking to each other over the phone only becomes dull in the long run. For that reason it is highly important to take advantage of other forms of communication as well as to do things together, for example.. Watching a movie at the same time or doing similar things at the same time or just plain and simple paying each other visits as often as possible.

Long distance relationship requires mutual trust and positive attitude as well as visiting each other as often as possible. It is very difficult to maintain an emotional connection in long-term unless you see each other in reasonable time periods. But the most important of all is that both of you believe in each other and your relationship.

Lεaяn It & Livε It

Luke8:47
Learn It: Jesus always listens when to chat or pour our heart out to him.
Learn It: Talk to Jesus today, friend to friend. Tell him how you're feeling, your worries, what's happening, and how things are going at school -- he wants to hear it all.

Luke 1O:27-29
Learn It: Everyone qualifies as a neighbor.
Live It: Never dis anyone's race or background. Don't let anyone else do it either. If you hear a racial comment, speak up. Defend the person. Follow Jesus' example by loving and accepting all people.

Luke 12:15
Learn It: Don't be greedy. Life isn't measured by how much stuff you have.
Love It: Stop wasting time wishing you had what other people have, whether it's clothes, a car, or anything else. Having things doesn't make life full, but having Jesus does.

Info from Biblezine™ Revolve 2OO7

Saturday, November 26, 2011

ready
set go

Get Good Grades

-- Take solid notes.

-- Attend study groups.

-- Pray for wisdom.

-- Read directions.

-- Listen closely.

-- Participate actively.

-- Research thoroughly.

-- Enjoy learning.

-- Eat a healthy breakfast.

-- Get enough sleep.
Great Date Ideas!

Trying to plan a night out (or in) with your sweetie?
Real girls give their tried and tested best ideas for every possible occasion

"I love going to the zoo on a first date. It's not too expensive, and it's hilarious to see your guy get all goo-goo over the koalas."
-- Dominique, 17 . Columbia, SC

"A day of fun in the snow! We could go for a walk on to an outdoor skating rink and skate. Since I can't skate too well, it's a GREAT excuse to hold his hand! We'd end the day with a trip to the coffee shop for some hot chocolate."
-- Laurie, 15 . Ontario, CA

"Go to a rec center, where you can go out and have fun with different activities, and you can also eat."
-- Cortney, 17 . Jasonville, IN

"Go to a driving range and hit a few golf balls. It's fun, plus you can talk and get to know each other, which you couldn't do in a movie. And your guy can teach you how to swing."
-- McKenah, 16 . Peoria, AZ

"Watch a funny movie and cuddle up under a warm blanket."
-- Lauren, 18 . North Platte, NE

"My idea of a first date would be to go to the movies with a group of friends and your new boyfriend/guy you're interested in. That way, it's not too weird and you won't have awkward silences. You can go out with a group of friends, but that doesn't mean you both have to sit with them!"
-- Bethany, 16 . Wheeling, WV

"The perfect first date would be an evening at Disneyland or an amusement park: plenty of time to talk and have fun! Plus a great opportunity to hold your guy's hand on scary rides."
-- Jaime, 16 . Anaheim, CA

"A day trip to the aquarium is a perfect date. There will always be something to talk about."
-- MaSara, 16 . Lusby, MD
Info from Seventeen
Bible Basics
Grace.. Grace is undeserved favor or blessing. It motivates helpful attitudes and causes people to do good deeds on behalf of others. Grace moves others to think well of us, to give second chances, and to bless us for no apparent reason. In a word, grace characterizes the nature of God. He offers us grace at every turn, even when we don't realize it. He gives us wisdom, gets us out of jams, and places helpful people in our paths. God's greatest act of grace was giving us Jesus, and we experienced that grace by trusting and following him. Being aware of God's grace toward us helps us extend it to others.
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