What depression feels like..
When you’re depressed, it can feel like no one understands. But depression is far more common in teens than you may think. You are not alone and your depression is not a hopeless case. Even though it can feel like depression will never lift, it eventually will—and with proper treatment and healthy choices, that day can come even sooner.
Signs and symptoms of teen depression
It's hard to put into words how depression feels, and people experience it differently. There are, however, some common problems and symptoms that teens with depression experience.
1. You constantly feel irritable, sad, or angry.
2. Nothing seems fun anymore, and you just don't see the point of trying.
3. You feel bad about yourself—worthless, guilty, or just "wrong" in some way
4. You sleep too much or not enough.
5. You have frequent, unexplained headaches or other physical problems.
6. Anything and everything makes you cry.
7. You’ve gained or lost weight without consciously trying to.
8. You just can’t concentrate. Your grades may be plummeting because of it.
9. You feel helpless and hopeless.
10. You’re thinking about death or suicide. (If this is true, talk to someone right away!)
Is your friend depressed?
If you’re a teenager with a friend who seems down or troubled, you may suspect depression. But how do you know it’s not just a passing phase or a bad mood? Look for common warning signs of teen depression:
~Your friend doesn’t want to do the things you guys used to love to do.
~Your friend starts using alcohol or drugs or hanging with a bad crowd.
~Your friend stops going to classes and afterschool activities.
~Your friend talks about being bad, ugly, stupid, or worthless.
~Your friend starts talking about death or suicide.
When teen depression turns deadly
If your feelings become so overwhelming that you can’t see any solution besides harming yourself or others, you need to get help right away. And yet, asking for help when you’re in the midst of such strong emotions can be really tough. If talking to a stranger might be easier for you, call 1-800-273-TALK in the U.S. to speak in confidence to someone who can understand and help you deal with your feelings. To find a suicide helpline outside the U.S., visit IASP or Suicide.org.
